She thought her husband wasn’t in love with her and then she discovered this

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The other day, a lady came to me for a consultation. She told me; I love my husband so much but he simply doesn’t love me or care about me. He is the best dad to our children. But, there is a distance between the two of us.

She had come alone. It was evident there was a gap. His absence showcased it.

I performed her Nadi Pariksha to understand her mental patterns and her subconscious thoughts and feelings. After briefly discussing with her, I suggested some remedial therapies to her.

She came for a followup appointment within two days. This time, her husband was with her. He seemed very gentlemanly. From there conversation, it seemed to me that she was searching for her father figure in him. I discussed with her husband and told her what I felt in her Nadi. We discussed and he got the message. She left soon after the appointment.

When she came for the third appointment, she was all glee. I was eager to know the reason. She told me that when she left after her appointment the previous time, her husband ushered her into their car and told her; let’s go out for lunch, just you and me! Let the kids be at home.

His surprise to her couldn’t contain her joy for an entire week. She was all of a sudden so much in love with him.

That’s when she discovered; that the thought of her husband’s gesture kept coming back to her and she just was more in love. Her love just multiplied. She couldn’t contain her smile.

When you learn Nadi Pariksha, you learn how you can study thoughts, emotions, feelings, subconscious patterns and its effect on the body. The connections between root cause and symptoms are revealed to you.

I have been teaching this ancient science for over 10 years and the rewards have been encouraging. I’ve seen doctors shunning their stethoscopes and using only Nadi Pariksha to diagnose their patients’ ailments and some doctors, for the very first time, have used a combination of marma chikitsa and medicines to remove doshas they have discovered through Nadi Pariksha and have been rewarded with excellent results.

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His life was straight out of a movie

The other day, a principal of a reputed school called me seeking help for one of her students, a boy of 13 years. She said the boy’s parents were crying for help and that they were sitting in front of her. So, I slotted an appointment for them to come and see me the same afternoon.

The family came in. As usual the boy’s parents began complaining how their son was absenting himself from school.

I spoke to the boy in front of them. His answers were in whispers which at times I could barely hear. After about 15 minutes, I asked his parents to sit outside and had a one-to-one conversation with the boy. At first, he was hesitant. When I assured him that I don’t judge people, he began interacting.

From the hour long interaction I had with him, I realised that the boy feels unloved by his parents. He feels his parents didn’t want him. He also shared with me that he was in a hostel for two years. His story made me feel that his life was straight out of the Tare Zameen Par movie.

My interaction with the boy was almost over. I asked him to sit outside and asked for his parents to come in. When I asked his parents what they thought about their son, the father said, he wanted his son to become a doctor.

The principal had mentioned that the boy was an intelligent child and scored very well. So, I didn’t know where the problem was. And I asked the boy’s parents to continue telling me about their son. When the husband and wife started sharing information sometimes individually and sometimes together, I pieced the information together. That’s when I realised what was happening with the boy.

To make their son more studious, the parents consciously neglected him. They shared with him pictures of them with their relatives children only to get their son to be even more studious. What his parents did frustrated the boy and his mind became restless. He didn’t know where to turn to for help. He began locking himself up in his room and slept all day.

He created his comfort space. He realised he needn’t get out of his room and face the world. So, he slept all day. At night, he’d stay awake watching movies.

His parents simply didn’t get it. The father pursued his desire to make his son a doctor and put him in boarding. The first year went by. At the end of the second year, the boy refused to go back to boarding. So, they put him into this school.

I asked the boy’s mother what she felt about putting the boy into boarding and she said, she wasn’t even asked. Decision was taken by her husband.

Now that he wasn’t attending school, the father was contemplating on putting him back in boarding.

I spoke to the boy’s parents and asked them whether they were ready to lose their son! Further, I asked them what difference does it make to them with what he grew up to become! Their son was studious and responsible. I helped them see a different perspective, a different way to address the situation on hand. They saw a new possibility.

As a matter of chance I asked them, how many times have you taken your child on a holiday! They said… never.

To me, this boy was on the brink of depression. The principal had saved him in the nick of time by getting help to him.

I suggested that they first restore their love for their son and then take their son out on a picnic.

In the evening the family came and this time their daughter was also present. The father came to show himself. I performed his Nadi Pariksha. After the diagnosis, I asked him, how important is others opinion of you to you? In different words he said that was all that mattered. We had nailed the root cause of the boy’s condition.

My work with the boy’s father took more time that what I took with the boy. My work with the boy was accomplished and work with his father has just begun.

Two days later I called the principal to give an update. She answered my phone call and said I’ve done a miracle. I asked her to clarify her statement. She said, the boy has resumed school. She also mentioned that the way he wishes her a good morning reassured her that the boy was okay.

Many a time, we as parents assume that we know it all and take action which at times backfires on our children. How much do we really know? I’d like to answer this question for you… actually we know nothing. Give your children a chance. Listen to your children patiently. If you can’t do that, find someone who can help you listen to your children and also get your children back on track.

You are the best example your children can find in this world. So, be the best parent they can ever find.

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His stomach was burning and his joints were hurting

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When you look perfectly okay, but you have unexplained physical problems and you don’t know what is the root cause of it, Nadi Pariksha (Ayurvedic Pulse Diagnosis) is the only way to find out the real problem.

A man, 35 years of age came for a Nadi Pariksha consultation. After performing his Nadi Pariksha, I found that he had stiffness in his neck, his stomach was burning. His joints were stiff and he was lacking quality sleep and that would create stiffness in his neck and aggravate as a nasty migraine. He was judgmental and he would get intensely angry at the slightest provocation. His intense anger was the root cause of all his symptoms.

I enquired with him whether he was getting sudden and intense anger and whether he faced these physical symptoms! He agreed that he was indeed getting angry for frivolous reasons and then his stiff neck condition worsened leaving him with a bad migraine, his burning sensation in the stomach aggravated and his lack of sleep seemed incurable.

Anger can create widespread consequences. When you get angry, tamas, the quality of energy that induces sleep gets disturbed. Further, your alkaline mucus lining in your stomach and your intestines begin to reduce and will eventually result in ulcers. The muscles that bind your joints can lose their elasticity and result in stiff joints. It can further get complicated and result in permanent injuries in your ankles, knees and your shoulders.

This is not the first time I have seen anger manifest into a bothersome symptom. I have seen how anger has manifested into schizophrenia and the person has died of a brain haemorrhage in sleep, and the worst I have witnessed, is how anger has manifested into cancer of the bile duct.

He had taken some so-called remedial measures that actually were slowly destroying him. He had begun compromising and controlling his anger. He was giving into situations so that there would be no confrontation.

But, this step actually destroyed his own peace. He was getting angry but controlling it and diverting himself. The result was manifesting physically.

Anger is not bad. The misuse of anger is bad. Controlling your anger is the worst practice you can create for yourself. It will surely destroy you. Controlling anger is like slow poison.

I explained to him why his body was creating this condition. He could see clearly how he was unknowingly harming himself. So, I suggested that he undertake a few therapies that will help him release all his bent up reasons that cause his anger. I also suggested that he bring his wife so that she can learn  Marma Chikitsa and help him sleep peacefully.

I ended the consultation with giving him Marma Chikitsa treatment. His body and mind relaxed. He felt calm. He had a restful sleep that night.

Almost all physical conditions have their root cause in how you react to your environment. Addressing the root cause and alongside reversing the symptoms is the best way to bring your body and mind to harmony permanently.

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Medicines did not cure her burning stomach and then she found her cure

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She was 38 years of age. She was from northern India and was married to a only son of a semi-orthodox family. She had a son of 5 years. She had burning sensation in the stomach for over 6 years. She had consulted multiple doctors, taken multiple investigations including endoscopy and had taken multiple treatments. Despite all these, burning sensation in her stomach persisted.

She had come for a consultation. I performed her Nadi Pariksha. Before I could announce her diagnosis, she began narrating her history and events that transpired between her and her mother-in-law and how she felt humiliated. She broke down.

When she had finished, It was my turn. I began explaining to her how her judgments had created her emotions of anger, aggression, frustration, resentment and hatred towards her mother-in-law and those were the real reasons of her physical condition.

Sometimes, our parents or our parents-in-law are not the best examples of what we want to become in life and makes it difficult for us to respect them. It is not our parents’ or our parents-in-law’s fault. They grew up under different circumstances and their circumstances shaped them. They find no reason to change their behaviour and mannerisms or their attitude towards life.

We judge our parents and parents-in-laws based on what we experience with them. Our judgments of their attitude are mostly unconscious and sometimes conscious. All our judgments are tied to our experiences.  Little do we realise that our judgments can cause us to resent their behaviour and attitude so strongly that they manifest as physical symptoms in our body.

it is written in the ancient treatise Rāvana Nādi Pariksha; “Mānasou kāmou doshokopo bhavatyeva |” meaning – Desires that are born in the mind cause imbalances in our body and manifest as symptoms.

Desires are primarily of what we want to accomplish. These can be acceptance and appreciation from others, name, fame, money and wealth. The worst form of desire is wanting to control others’ attitude and their behaviour towards us. And that is what my client had desired. Her unrealised expectations of her mother-in-law towards her had caused such resentment in her that she had an abortion.

She finally realised that life is not tough, nor are the choices. Unhappiness, anger and fear are the real obstacles that she needs to get rid of. She has decided to transform her perspective of life.

She cannot forget her past. She can definitely make her present better. She is already feeling better.

With my experience of working with thousands of women, some of whom were raped, some who lost their children, who, with help from practices, did find their freedom from pain. I have come to realise that life is a teacher. And life teaches you where to look for your strengths and how you can become someone stronger in your values and strength. Some people find the person they look for who directs them towards freedom from pain. While some others are blinded by their ego of blame and disappointment and continue to live in pain. Nevertheless, everyone has their time of realisation.

I too have gone through extremely trying circumstances and challenges in life. When I opened myself to learning, I realised then and today, that life has definitely brought me to a better place.

Has your time come now? Look at yourself. You probably are ready to embrace a pain free life!

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You can simply overcome emotional pain

A lady came to me a few days ago. Her complaint was that she was putting all the effort she wanted to at home and at work and that she had no luck.

I perform d her Nadi Pariksha and what I could see through the diagnosis was that she was very unhappy. Every time a problem she was going through was announced, she nodded in acceptance with a smile.

For her, her pain had become a pleasurable experience. Many of my clients, get so used to pain that they are unable to live life without pain. If they don’t have it, they’ll create one. Then they complain about their pains.

If you want your life to painless and beautiful, the first step is to stop creating pain. Think of a Happy situation instead and actually create one. Then form a thread or sequence of happy thoughts and happy actions. Only then life itself will turn around for you.

Here’s a simple practice to turn your life around now.

Sit in a comfortable position. You can sit on the ground or on a chair. You can also be resting on a couch with your legs stretched.

I’m sharing a breathing practice to you, and a different one.

Before you breathe in, see bars of happiness, love, joy, laughter and fun as words around you.

Breathe in these words and breathe out normally. Put your effort in breathing in happiness, love, joy, laughter and fun.

Do this practice for a few minutes and see how it changes you instantly.

I shared this practice with a lady who had sharp shooting pains in her left knee. After just two minutes of this practice, her pains were gone. I saw her the next day too, and she said that her pains here just vanished.

Don’t make pain a pleasurable experience. Replace pain with happiness, love, joy, laughter and fun.

⁃ Mahesh Krishnamurthy